Our little stucco house in Orange County has been home to many loveys. All three of my kids had them. My last has had his the longest.
Our journey with extra family members began in about 1993, when my husband and I had Ricky and fallaciously considered ourselves a family of three. We signed three names on the birth announcements, took three deductions at tax time, hung three stockings by the chimney with care. And, when restaurant hostesses called our name to be seated, we were Sanchez, Party of Three.
It wasn’t much math to keep track of.
But a few months later, when Ricky was about to turn 1, things got … well … a little complicated. A package arrived from Grandma, brightly wrapped in red, blue and yellow tissue paper, oddly hinting at what was inside. I unwrapped the tissue slowly, in front of Ricky, and we both laughed when a small tuft of black hair popped out.
“It’s Ernie,” I said, surprised.
And right at that moment — inexplicably and without fanfare — we became, I realized later, a family of four. Continue reading →